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| Title | Author | Summary | Buy | Greenville County Libraries |
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| Annie on My Mind | Nancy Garden | This groundbreaking book, first published in 1982, is the story of two teenage girls whose friendship blossoms into love and who, despite pressures from family and school that threaten their relationship, promise to be true to each other and their feelings. | buy used buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding Annie on My Mind to the collection. |
| Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe | Benjamin Alire Saenz | In Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe, two boys in a border town fell in love. Now, they must discover what it means to stay in love and build a relationship in a world that seems to challenge their very existence. | buy used buy new | search |
| The Art of Being Normal | Lisa Williamson | David Piper has always been an outsider. His parents think he's gay. The school bully thinks he's a freak. Only his two best friends know the real truth — David wants to be a girl. On the first day at his new school, Leo Denton has one goal — to be invisible. Attracting the attention of the most beautiful girl in Year 11 is definitely not part of that plan. When Leo stands up for David in a fight, an unlikely friendship forms. But things are about to get messy. Because at Eden Park School secrets have a funny habit of not staying secret for long. | buy used: English, Spanish, French buy new | search |
| Ash | Malinda Lo | In the wake of her father's death, Ash is left at the mercy of her cruel stepmother. Consumed with grief, she finds her only joy by the light of the dying hearth fire, re-reading the fairy tales her mother once told her. In her dreams, someday the fairies will steal her away, as they are said to do. | buy used buy new | search |
| Carry On | Rainbow Rowell | Simon Snow is the worst Chosen One who's ever been chosen. That's what his roommate, Baz, says. And Baz might be evil and a vampire and a complete git, but he's probably right. Half the time, Simon can't even make his wand work, and the other half, he starts something on fire. His mentor's avoiding him, his girlfriend broke up with him, and there's a magic-eating monster running around, wearing Simon's face. Baz would be having a field day with all this, if he were here — it's their last year at the Watford School of Magicks, and Simon's infuriating nemesis didn't even bother to show up. | buy used buy new | search |
| The Color Purple | Alice Walker | Celie has grown up poor in rural Georgia, despised by the society around her and abused by her own family. She strives to protect her sister, Nettie, from a similar fate, and while Nettie escapes to a new life as a missionary in Africa, Celie is left behind without her best friend and confidante, married off to an older suitor, and sentenced to a life alone with a harsh and brutal husband. | buy used: 1985 edition buy used: modern edition buy new | search |
| The Gentleman's Guide to Vice and Virtue | Mackenzi Lee | A young bisexual British lord embarks on an unforgettable Grand Tour of Europe with his best friend/secret crush. An 18th-century romantic adventure for the modern age written by This Monstrous Thing author Mackenzi Lee — Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda meets the 1700s. | buy used buy new | search |
| Girl Mans Up | M-E Girard | All Pen wants is to be the kind of girl she's always been. So why does everyone have a problem with it? They think the way she looks and acts means she's trying to be a boy — that she should quit trying to be something she's not. If she dresses like a girl and does what her folks want, it will show respect. If she takes orders and does what her friend, Colby, wants, it will show her loyalty. | buy used buy new | search |
| If I Was Your Girl | Meredith Russo | A bighearted book about being seen for who you really are. Amanda Hardy is the new girl in school. Like anyone else, all she wants is to make friends and fit in. But Amanda is keeping a secret, and she's determined not to get too close to anyone. | buy used buy new | search |
| I'll Give You the Sun | Jandy Nelson | At first, Jude and her twin brother are NoahandJude; inseparable. Noah draws constantly and is falling in love with the charismatic boy next door, while daredevil Jude wears red-red lipstick, cliff-dives, and does all the talking for both of them. | buy used: various languages buy new (English) buy new (Spanish) | search |
| The Miseducation of Cameron Post | Emily M. Danforth | Cameron Post feels a mix of guilt and relief when her parents die in a car accident. Their deaths mean they will never learn the truth she eventually comes to — that she's gay. Orphaned, Cameron comes to live with her old-fashioned grandmother and ultraconservative aunt Ruth. There she falls in love with her best friend, a beautiful cowgirl. When she's eventually outed, her aunt sends her to God's Promise, a religious conversion camp that is supposed to "cure" her homosexuality. At the camp, Cameron comes face to face with the cost of denying her true identity. | buy used buy new | search |
| More Happy Than Not | Adam Silvera | Happiness shouldn't be this hard. When it first gets announced, the Leteo Institute's memory-alteration procedure seems too good to be true to Aaron Soto; miracle cure-alls don't tend to pop up in the Bronx projects. Aaron can't forget how he's grown up poor, how his friends all seem to shrug him off, and how his father died by suicide in their one-bedroom apartment. He has the support of his patient girlfriend, if not necessarily his distant brother and overworked mother, but it's not enough. | buy used buy new | search |
| Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda | Becky Albertalli | Sixteen-year-old and not-so-openly gay Simon Spier prefers to save his drama for the school musical. But when an email falls into the wrong hands, his secret is at risk of being thrust into the spotlight. Now Simon is actually being blackmailed: If he doesn't play wingman for class clown Martin, his sexual identity will become everyone's business. Worse, the privacy of Blue, the pen name of the boy he's been emailing with, will be compromised. | buy used buy new | search |
| We Are Okay | Nina LaCour | You go through life thinking there's so much you need — until you leave with only your phone, your wallet, and a picture of your mother. Marin hasn't spoken to anyone from her old life since the day she left everything behind. No one knows the truth about those final weeks. Not even her best friend, Mabel. But even thousands of miles away from the California coast, at college in New York, Marin still feels the pull of the life and tragedy she's tried to outrun. Now, months later, alone in an emptied dorm for winter break, Marin waits. Mabel is coming to visit, and Marin will be forced to face everything that's been left unsaid and finally confront the loneliness that has made a home in her heart. | buy used: English, Spanish, Portuguese buy new (English) buy new (Spanish) | search |
| When the Moon Was Ours | Anna-Marie McLemore | To everyone who knows them, best friends Miel and Sam are as strange as they are inseparable. Roses grow out of Miel's wrist, and rumors say that she spilled out of a water tower when she was five. Sam is known for the moons he paints and hangs in the trees and for how little anyone knows about his life before he and his mother moved to town. | buy used: English or Spanish buy new | search |
| Title | Author | Summary | Buy | Greenville County Libraries |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| The Best At It | Maulik Pancholy | Rahul Kapoor is heading into seventh grade in a small town in Indiana. The start of middle school is making him feel increasingly anxious, so his favorite person in the whole world, his grandfather, Bhai, gives him some well-meaning advice: Find one thing you're really good at and become the BEST at it. | buy used buy new | search |
| Drama | Raina Telgemeier | Callie loves theater. And while she would totally try out for her middle school's production of Moon over Mississippi, she can't really sing. Instead she's the set designer for the drama department's stage crew, and this year she's determined to create a set worthy of Broadway on a middle-school budget. But how can she, when she doesn't know much about carpentry, ticket sales are down, and the crew members are having trouble working together? Not to mention the onstage AND offstage drama that occurs once the actors are chosen. And when two cute brothers enter the picture, things get even crazier! | buy used buy new | search |
| Drum Roll, Please | Lisa Jenn Bigelow | Melly only joined the school band because her best friend, Olivia, begged her to. But to her surprise, quiet Melly loves playing the drums. It's the only time she doesn't feel like a mouse. Now she and Olivia are about to spend the next two weeks at Camp Rockaway, jamming under the stars in the Michigan woods. | buy used buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding Drum Roll, Please to the collection. |
| The Girl Who Wasn't There | Karen McCombie | A story of friendship and ghostly mystery from one of the best-loved UK writers for young people. Maisie's dad has a new job as live-in caretaker of a Victorian school. Finding it hard to make friends, things change when Maisie tells her new classmates about something strange she saw the night before — a girl's face in the window of a gothic tower. | buy used | Unavailable; out of print. |
| Gracefully Grayson | Ami Polonsky | Grayson Sender has been holding onto a secret for what seems like forever: "he" is a girl on the inside, stuck in the wrong gender's body. The weight of this secret is crushing, but sharing it would mean facing ridicule, scorn, rejection, or worse. Despite the risks, Grayson's true self itches to break free. Will new strength from an unexpected friendship and a caring teacher's wisdom be enough to help Grayson step into the spotlight she was born to inhabit? | buy used buy new | search |
| Hurricane Child | Kheryn Callender | Being born during a hurricane is unlucky, and when 12-year-old Caroline's mother disappears, it can't get any worse. But when a new student named Kalinda arrives, Caroline's luck begins to turn around. Kalinda becomes Caroline's first and only friend — and the person for whom Caroline has begun to develop a crush. Now, Caroline must find the strength to confront her feelings for Kalinda and face the reason her mother abandoned her. Together, Caroline and Kalinda must set out in a hurricane to find Caroline's missing mother — before Caroline loses her forever. | buy used buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding Hurricane Child to the collection. |
| Lily and Dunkin | Donna Gephart | For readers who enjoyed Wonder and Counting by 7's, award-winning author Donna Gephart crafts a compelling story about two remarkable young people: Lily, a transgender girl, and Dunkin, a boy dealing with bipolar disorder. Their powerful journey, perfect for fans of Wonder, will shred your heart, then stitch it back together with kindness, humor, bravery, and love. | buy used buy new | search |
| Melissa | Alex Gino | When people look at Melissa, they think they see a boy named George. But she knows she's not a boy. She knows she's a girl. Melissa thinks she'll have to keep this a secret forever. Then her teacher announces that their class play is going to be Charlotte's Web. Melissa really, really, REALLY wants to play Charlotte. But the teacher says she can't even try out for the part... because she's a boy. | buy used buy new | search |
| The Misadventures of the Family Fletcher | Dana Alison Levy | The start of the school year is not going as the Fletcher brothers hoped. Each boy finds his plans for success veering off in unexpected and sometimes diastrous directions. And at home, their miserable new neighbor complains about everything. As the year continues, the boys learn the hard and often hilarious lesson that sometimes what you least expect is what you come to care about the most. | buy used buy new | search |
| The Moon Within | Aida Salazar | Celi Rivera's life swirls with questions. About her changing body. Her first attraction to a boy. And her best friend's exploration of what it means to be genderfluid. But most of all, her mother's insistence she have a moon ceremony when her first period arrives. It's an ancestral Mexican ritual that Mima and her community have reclaimed, but Celi promises she will NOT be participating. Can she find the power within herself to take a stand for who she wants to be? | buy used buy new | search |
| The Other Boy | M.G. Hennessey | Twelve-year-old Shane Woods is just a regular boy. He loves pitching for his baseball team, working on his graphic novel, and hanging out with his best friend, Josh. But Shane is keeping something private, something that might make a difference to his friends and teammates, even Josh. And when a classmate threatens to reveal his secret, Shane's whole world comes crashing down. It will take a lot of courage for Shane to ignore the hate and show the world that he's still the same boy he was before. And in the end, those who stand beside him may surprise everyone, including Shane. | buy used buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding The Other Boy to the collection. |
| The Pants Project | Cat Clarke | A touching, humorous story of strong-willed eleven-year-old Liv, who is determined to challenge his school's terrible dress code and change his life. Inspire empathy and compassion (and a few laughs!) in young readers with this stunning middle-grade novel. | buy used buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding The Pants Project to the collection. |
| Rick | Alex Gino | Eleven-year-old Rick Ramsey has generally gone along with everybody, just not making waves, even though he is increasingly uncomfortable with his father's jokes about girls, and his best friend's explicit talk about sex; but now in middle school he discovers the Rainbow Spectrum club, where kids of many genders and identities can express themselves — and maybe among them he can find new friends and discover his own identity, which may just be to opt out of sex altogether. | buy used buy new | search |
| Star-Crossed | Barbara Dee | Twelve-year-old Mattie is thrilled when she learns the eighth grade play will be Romeo and Juliet. In particular, she can't wait to share the stage with Gemma Braithwaite, who has been cast as Juliet. Gemma is brilliant, pretty — and British! — and Mattie starts to see her as more than just a friend. But Mattie has also had an on/off crush on her classmate Elijah since, well, forever. Is it possible to have a crush on both boys AND girls? | buy used buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding Star Crossed to the collection. |
| The Whispers | Greg Howard | Eleven-year-old Riley believes in the Whispers, magical wood creatures that will grant you wishes if you leave them tributes. Riley has a lot of wishes. He wishes bullies at school would stop picking on him. He wishes Dylan, his 8th grade crush, liked him, and Riley wishes he would stop wetting the bed. But most of all, Riley wishes for his mom to come back home. | buy used buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding The Whispers to the collection. |
| The Witch Boy | Molly Ostertag | In thirteen-year-old Aster's family, all the girls are raised to be witches, while boys grow up to be shapeshifters. Anyone who dares cross those lines is exiled. Unfortunately for Aster, he still hasn't shifted … and he's still fascinated by witchery, no matter how forbidden it might be. When a mysterious danger threatens the other boys, Aster knows he can help — as a witch. It will take the encouragement of a new friend, the non-magical and non-conforming Charlie, to convince Aster to try practicing his skills. And it will require even more courage to save his family … and be truly himself. | buy used buy new | search |
| Title | Author | Summary | Buy | Greenville County Libraries |
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| And Tango Makes Three | Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell | In the zoo there are all kinds of animal families. But Tango's family is not like any of the others. Find out why, in this book suitable for preschool to grade three. | buy used buy new | search |
| The Boy & the Bindi | Vivek Shraya | Beautifully illustrated by Rajni Perera, The Boy & the Bindi is a joyful celebration of gender and cultural difference. | buy used buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding The Boy & the Bindi to the collection. |
| The Family Book | Todd Parr | The Family Book celebrates the love we feel for our families and all the different varieties they come in. Whether you have two moms or two dads, a big family or a small family, a clean family or a messy one, Todd Parr assures readers that no matter what kind of family you have, every family is special in its own unique way. | buy used: various languages buy new (English) buy new (Spanish) | search |
| Heather Has Two Mommies | Lesléa Newman | Heather's favorite number is two. She has two arms, two legs, two pets — and two mommies. When Heather goes to school for the first time, someone asks her about her daddy, but Heather doesn't have a daddy. Then something interesting happens. When Heather and her classmates all draw pictures of their families, not one drawing is the same. This delightful edition for a new generation of young readers features fresh illustrations by Laura Cornell and an updated story by Lesléa Newman. | buy used: English or Spanish buy new | search |
| I Am Jazz | Jessica Herthel and Jazz Jennings | The story of a transgender child based on the real-life experience of Jazz Jennings. | buy used: English or Spanish buy new | search |
| Introducing Teddy: A Gentle Story about Gender and Friendship | Jessica Walton | For the youngest readers, Introducing Teddy explores concepts of gender identity and transition in an accessible and heart-warming story about being true to yourself and being a good friend. | buy used: English or Spanish buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding Introducing Teddy to the collection. |
| Jacob's New Dress | Sarah Hoffman and Ian Hoffman | Jacob loves playing dress-up, when he can be anything he wants to be. Some kids at school say he can't wear "girl" clothes, but Jacob wants to wear a dress to school. Can he convince his parents to let him wear what he wants? This heartwarming story speaks to the unique challenges faced by children who don't identify with traditional gender roles. | buy used buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding Jacob's New Dress to the collection. |
| Julián is a Mermaid | Jessica Love | Mesmerizing and full of heart, this jubilant story is a radiant celebration of individuality and self-love. | buy used: English, Spanish, Chinese buy new | search |
| Love, Violet | Charlotte Sullivan Wild, Charlene Chua | Shy Violet attempts to show another girl how she feels on Valentine's Day. | buy used buy new | search |
| Morris Micklewhite and the Tangerine Dress | Christine Baldacchino | Morris is a little boy who loves using his imagination. But most of all, Morris loves his classroom's dress-up center and its tangerine dress. | buy used: English or French buy new | search |
| The Mother of a Movement | Rob Sanders and Sam Kalda | Tells the story of Jeanne Manford, the founder of PFLAG — a true story of parental support and unconditional love. | buy used buy new | search |
| Neither | Airlie Anderson | In this colorful and touching story that celebrates what makes each of us unique, a little creature that's not quite a bird and not quite a bunny — it's "neither" — searches for a place to fit in. | buy used buy new | search |
| Prince & Knight | Daniel Haack | In this modern fairy tale, a noble prince and a brave knight come together to defeat a terrible monster and in the process find true love in a most unexpected place. | buy used: English or French buy new | search |
| Red: A Crayon's Story | Michael Hall | A blue crayon mistakenly labeled as "red" suffers an identity crisis in this picture book by the New York Times' bestselling creator of My Heart Is Like a Zoo. This funny, heartwarming, colorful picture book about finding the courage to be true to your inner self can be read on multiple levels, and it offers something for everyone. | buy used: English, Spanish, French buy new | search |
| Stella Brings the Family | Miriam B. Schiffer | A heartwarming story about a girl, her two dads, and the true meaning of family. | buy used buy new | search |
| Worm Loves Worm | J.J. Austrian | When a worm meets a special worm and they fall in love, you know what happens next: They get married! But their friends want to know: who will wear the dress? And who will wear the tux? | buy used buy new | Not available. Email the library to suggest adding Worm Loves Worm to the collection. |
| When Aidan Became a Brother | Kyle Lukoff | When Aidan was born, everyone thought he was a girl. His parents gave him a pretty name, his room looked like a girl's room, and he wore clothes that other girls liked wearing. After he realized he was a trans boy, Aidan and his parents fixed the parts of his life that didn't fit anymore, and he settled happily into his new life. | buy used: English or Spanish buy new | search |